Man Shopping with Stacie
I share my relatable, raw, dating and life experiences to help singles find more joy. I'm Stacie Wimer, an optimistic 44 year old twice divorced mom of one amazing teenage daughter. You'll get practical tips and strategies you can implement everyday to experience more joy.
Episodes
63 episodes
EP62 - Cheers to the New Year - I’m building a legacy over here
In this episode, I discuss the idea of building a legacy. I share how over the past year and a half, through my podcast, social media, and networking, I have been building mine. My mission has been to help other single people like me f...
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Season 2
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Episode 17
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29:20
Ep61~ Holly Jolly Christmas
Since I recognize that the holidays are often busy, stressful, and not so holly jolly, I want to remind you of some of the things we singles should be grateful for and also give you all some ideas to bring a bit more joy to your Christmas seaso...
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Season 2
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Episode 16
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30:21
Ep60 ~ Cuffing Season
'Tis the Damn Season... You can call me babe for the weekend." ~ Taylor SwiftCuffing season as defined by Merriam Webster:"Refers to a period of time where single people begin looking for short term partnerships to pass the colder m...
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Season 2
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Episode 15
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34:26
EP59 - Deciding To Come Clean
In this episode, I talk about navigating difficult conversations in our dating lives... When and how do we come clean about challenges (past or present) in our lives? Some of the topics I explore:Marital infidelity...
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Season 2
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Episode 14
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27:28
Ep58~ What's The Worst That Could Happen
In this episode, I explore all of the ways I could see my life play out as a single woman. I've done a lot of day dreaming and soul searching after divorce. One of the things I like to think about is what I could do if I grow old alone, but not...
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Season 2
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Episode 13
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25:19
Ep 57 Love Me, Love My Dog
Our pets impact our dating lives in countless ways. To begin, I share a tragic story of how I adopted a black lab puppy on a whim from a not-so reputable animal shelter in Kansas City years ago. My dad, logically and lovingly asked...
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Season 2
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Episode 12
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25:19
EP56 - Green Flags
This episode is about all things happy and healthy that we should be looking for out in the dating world.The format for this episode is progressive... Green flags to spot when someone is into us when we first meet, when we're planning a fir...
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Season 2
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Episode 11
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44:26
Ep55~ Red Flags
This episode is all about red flags - how to spot them and how to respond to them. I share my own stories of red flags from my past as well as from my current dating life.To begin, I talk about little pink flags- early flags that have poppe...
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Season 2
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Episode 10
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45:20
EP54~ Love me like a Country Song
In this episode, I use songs from Lanie's country music playlist to describe how I hope to be thought of felt about by someone who loves me. I hope this musical discussion elicits thoughts in your own mind of what it is exactly you a...
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Season 2
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Episode 9
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47:21
EP53~ Easy Targets
In this episode, I talk about how we (single people) are often easy targets for married people to hit on, hit up on social media, to proposition or entangle in an affair.I begin by sharing my own personal examples of being hit on by married...
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Season 2
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Episode 8
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27:09
EP52~ Got Game?
In this episode, I talk about that undeniable pull that some individuals have. I share some stories from my youth, recent experiences, and a story of one of my girlfriends.I have a theory some people are just born with game. To drive this p...
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Season 2
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Episode 7
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33:43
EP51- My Take on the Hot Crazy Matrix
In this episode, I share my thoughts on the Hot Crazy Matrix. I talk about how appearance, mental stability and emotional availability affect our search for a compatible partner.To begin, I think the terms hot, crazy, and emotionally unavai...
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Season 2
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Episode 6
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28:59
Ep50~ Come on in to the Cougar Den
My name is Stacie and I am an agist. I have never been interested in dating anyone more than a few years older or younger than me. My friend, Tonya, though... Well, she's quite different.We begin by chatting about our friendship when I was ...
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Season 2
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Episode 5
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40:44
Ep49~ Single AF
Are you REALLY Happy being alone ( like I am)? If so, maybe you have some of the same struggles I have... I'm guarded and I'm getting VERY particular about who I share my heart and time with. Can you relate?In this episode, I'm going to...
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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30:05
Ep48~ Influencer for Good
This inspiration for this podcast actually came from a Mass I attended. During the Mass, the priest said that if Moses were alive today he would be considered an "influencer". He went on to tell the parishioners that we could all be influ...
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Season 2
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Episode 3
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28:16
Ep47~ Emotionally Slutty
The phrase "Emotionally Slutty" is from a Sex and the City episode... Carrie Bradshaw says, "I revealed too much too soon. I was emotionally slutty."In this episode, I talk about the habit some of us are in of giving it up too early... ...
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Season 2
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Episode 2
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26:49
Ep46~ Learning to Write in Pencil
I'm back! I'm on a journey of self- discovery right along with you! I'm 44 years old now and my daughter turns 17 at the end of the month. We've been on our own for about 3 years now. This skill of learning to write in pencil is something I've ...
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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48:55
Season 1 Finale! Ep45~ It's Not You, It's Me
This episode is all about a fact of life... rejection.To begin, I discuss how the end of a significant relationship or marriage can feel like the ultimate rejection. Sometimes these relationships end due to infidelity, growing apa...
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Season 1
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Episode 45
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31:12
Ep44 ~ Hook, Line, & Sinker
This episode is all about Catfishing on online dating sites. In this episode, I discuss the Tinder Swindler, a popular Netflix documentary about a man who conned several women out of hundreds of thousands of dollars. He calle...
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28:18
Ep43~ I've Gotta Have Faith
I'm often asked if I'm scared to grow old and die alone? My answer is always "NO!". A huge source of my peacefulness and optimism for my future is my faith. This is an inclusive podcast, so if you believe in any higher power...
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Season 1
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Episode 43
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20:45
Ep42 ~ I'll Have What They're Having- Can men & women be friends?
In this episode, my friend, Eric Reid, and I discuss the age old question... Can men & women be friends... just friends?Our topics of conversation include:When Harry met SallySiblingsLG...
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Season 1
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Episode 42
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51:46
Ep41~ Let All That You Do Be Done In Love
Let all that you do be done in love. 1 Corinthians 16:14This is a special Valentine's Day Episode. I'm sharing with you several different ways you can spend this holiday that is NOT just for lovers.If you're alone, with li...
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Season 1
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Episode 41
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28:57
Ep40 ~ Taking The High Road (Pt 2)
In this episode, I have a conversation with my friend, Licensed Clinical Therapist, Emma Wood, about narcissism, triangulation, and gas lighting. I share experiences from my second marriage with Emma to gain a better understanding of t...
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Season 1
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Episode 40
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56:12
Ep39~ Taking The High Road (Pt 1)
On this podcast, I typically focus on light subjects and keep things positive and fun around being single and dating. However, I think it's important to keep in mind we can't be happy and healthy singles if we haven't learned from our pas...
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Season 1
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Episode 39
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1:08:29
Ep38~I Get By With A Little Help From My Friends
They say we are the sum of who we surround ourselves with. In this episode, I examine who I have surrounded myself with throughout my life and how they impact me and I encourage you to do the same. It's pretty well accepted that t...
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Season 1
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Episode 38
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50:29